Here is a short description of some of
the popular pre-wedding rituals of a Telegu
marriage ceremony.
Muhurtam:
Muhurtam means determining the auspicious
part of the day for the marriage. The
period that is considered auspicious starts
from 7.00 p.m. and goes on till the next
day until about 11 am. Telegu
Weddings don't usually take place
in the months of Aashad, Bhadrapad and
Shunya as these months are considered
not auspicious.However, what remains essentially
the same is the highest regard of Telegu
people for the institution of marriage.
Pendlikoothuru:
This ceremony involves anointing the bride
and the groom with oil and turmeric before
bath. Following the bath, the couple don
new clothes. The bride-to-be wears flowers
in her hair. She also adorns her forehead
with a bindi or vermilion dot and wears
bangles on her wrists.
Snathakam:
Snathakam ceremony is performed at the
bridegroom's house before the muhurtam.
It is a sort of thread ceremony that involves
making the groom wear a silver thread
on his body.
Kashi Yatra:
This is an extremely joyful ceremony.
Following the tradition, after the recitation
of Vedic verses, the groom pretends to
leave for Kashi, a pilgrimage center to
become an ascetic. He carries a walking
stick and other essentials to show that
he is not interested in becoming a householder
anymore. He relents and agrees to the
marriage only after he is stopped and
persuaded by the bride's brother to fulfill
his responsibilities as a householder.
Mangala Snaanam:
Following the custom, the bride and groom
must take a Mangala Snaanam or an auspicious
bath on the day of the wedding. The bath
is believed to cleanse and purify them
and make them ready for the sacred rites
that are to follow.
Aarti:
After the ceremonial bath, the bride and
groom are anointed with oil at their respective
homes. Their families perform aarti. The
ceremony is significant as it carries
with it the family's prayer that the mind
of the bride/groom be illuminated by wisdom.
Ganesh and Gauri
Pooja: The bridegroom
performs Ganesh pooja in the mandapam
or wedding hall just before the marriage
ceremony. Worshipping the revered Ganesha
who is the remover of all obstacles. Similarly,
the bride performs Gauri Puja and seeks
blessings for a blissful married life.
Wedding Rituals:
A typical Telegu Wedding is full
of joyous and colorful rituals. Please
read on to know more about Telegu Wedding
traditions.
Kanyadaan:
A significant part of Hindu weddings,
the Kanayadaan is that part of the marriage
ceremony in which the girl's family gives
her away to the groom. In a traditional
Telegu wedding, bride's maternal uncle
carries her in a bamboo basket to the
mandapam where a curtain separates the
bride and bridegroom. They are not to
see each other until after the marriage
ceremony. The priest invokes the blessings
of the ancestors belonging to the last
seven generations of both families. The
bride's parents wash the groom's feet
in a gesture that symbolizes their belief
that he is a form of God to whom they
now offer their daughter's hand.
Jeelakarra Bellamu:
After the priest recites the wedding shlokas
from the Vedas, the bride and groom apply
a paste of cumin seeds (jeera) and jaggery
on each other's hands. This is known as
Jeelakarra-Bellamu. This slightly bitter
cumin and sweet jaggery when ground together
turn into an inseparable mixture. The
custom signifies that bride and groom
are supposed to become inseparable through
life's bitter and sweet times.
Madhuparkam:
For the Madhuparkam ceremony the bride
wears a white cotton sari with a red border,
while the groom dons a white cotton dhoti
with a red border. White signifies purity
and chastity, while red color represents
strength.
Sumangli:
Under this ceremony, ten married women
(Sumangalis) accompany the bride. Six
of them hold plates full of rice and turmeric
powder mixed together. The remaining hold
plates with small lamps made from a mixture
of rice flour, sugar and milk. Rice signifies
abundance while lit lamps represent sweetness
and light, two qualities that the bride
brings with her to this new phase of life.
Tying of the
Mangalsutra: To carry
out this ritual, the curtain between the
bride and the groom is removed. After
offering prayers, the groom ties the two
strings each with a golden disc representing
the Mangalsutra separately around the
bride's neck with three knots to represent
the strength of their union physical,
mental and spiritual.
Kanyadaan Akshata:
After the mangalsutra ceremony, the couple
exchange garlands. Those present at the
wedding shower their blessings on the
couple by sprinkling flowers and turmeric-colored
rice or Akshat on them.
Saptapadi:
'Saptapadi' or seven steps are what the
couple takes together. In this ceremony
the bride's saree and the groom's dhoti
are tied together at one end in a knot.
In each step that he takes, the groom
prays for life-long blessings. During
this ceremony, saris, ornaments and other
gifts are offered to the couple and to
other family members.
Sthaalipaakam:
In this sweet ceremony, the groom slips
silver toe rings on the bride's feet.
The girl is also adorned with a string
of black beads, to protect her from the
evil eye.
Post-Wedding Rituals:
Given here is a short description
of some prominent post-wedding rituals
of a traditional Telegu Wedding.
Grihapravesh:
When the marriage ceremony is over the
bride is ceremonially taken to the groom's
home for Griha Pravesh (entering the house
for the first time). Here, the in-laws
give the bride a warm welcome.
Uniting the Mangalsutra:
As is customary in a Telegu wedding,
the two mangalsutras are united on a common
thread 16 days after the wedding. An elder
member of the family or the husband himself
can unite the two mangalsutras on a common
thread. A few black or golden beads are
slipped between the two plates so that
they don't clash with each other. Signifying
harmony between the two families. The
bride takes a bath and wears a new sari
before wearing the mangalsutra on this
day. 16 days are symbolic of the time
needed by the bride to understand her
husband's family.