Indian Weddings are full of customs and traditions
and are celebrated on a grand scale with
lot of fan-fare. One of the most remarkable
features of weddings in India
is that it not just marks the coming together
of two individuals who are getting married
but also the coming together of their respective
families. Great diversity in marriage traditions
can be observed across the length and breath
of the country due to religious, geographical,
cultural and linguistic differences. However,
the unifying factor about marriages in India
is that everywhere they are carried out
in the most elaborate manner. All rituals
and tradition right from the state of engagement
to post wedding ceremonies are carried out
in detail and with total faith and dedication.
Participation of friends and extended family
adds to the joy of wedding celebrations.
India is a land of diverse culture and
religion. Every region of the country has
its own unique way of celebrating their
marriage. Be it east, west, north and south
all the four regions have its own wedding
customs and rituals. Marriages in India
are not just coming together of two individuals
and exchange of vows and rings, but it marks
the bonding of two souls, two families,
their culture and their communities. Indian
wedding is not an affair of few hours but
it is a matter of several eventful days.
All the family members and friends get together
for the celebration.
It is said that marriages are made in heaven
but celebrated in country like India. The
marriage rituals and customs unfold different
stories behind it. Condensed over centuries
of cultural admixture, Indian weddings showcase
the rich culture and tradition of India.
The practices of Indian wedding are different
according to the particular region. There
are various rituals with which you can associate
an Indian wedding. The wedding celebration
is divided into three parts pre wedding,
main day and post wedding. The pre wedding
rituals vary according to the region. But
the ceremony of mehendi is prevalent more
or less in every caste and region. The ceremony
of mehendi is celebrated mostly at bride's
place where female friends and relatives
of the bride gather to put henna on bride's
feet and hand. Among the other rituals garland
ceremony is the most popular rituals, which
is celebrated more or less in every part
of the country. On this occasion the bride
and the groom garland each other as a sign
of mutual acceptance. On the main wedding
day a wedding altar or mandapa is built
on the wedding venue within which the marriage
is conducted. The rituals, which were performed
on that day is totally based on the regional
customs and traditions. The ritual of putting
sindoor or vermilion powder in the parting
of the bride's hair by the groom is the
ritual followed mostly in the northern and
eastern part of the country. Rituals like
kanyadaan, vidaii, tying of mangal sutra
around the bride's neck, saptapadi (seven
steps), in which the couple moves seven
times together around the fire exchanging
the wedding vows, here fire acts as a witness
of their marriage. These are some of the
common rituals practiced in all the castes.
The wedding rituals were initially simple
and easy to follow but nowadays it has become
more complicated due to unnecessary customs
like dowry. The custom of dowry is mostly
prevalent in the marriages in villages.
In educated and high society families dowry
system is not seen so much. But whatever
may be the rituals and customs the actual
essence behind all wedding celebration is
the union of two souls, two families and
two communities. And that makes Indian wedding
an unique celebration of culture and tradition.
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