Indian Weddings are
full of customs and traditions and are
celebrated on a grand scale with lot of
fan-fare. One of the most remarkable features
of weddings in India
is that it not just marks the coming together
of two individuals who are getting married
but also the coming together of their
respective families. Great diversity in
marriage traditions can be observed across
the length and breath of the country due
to religious, geographical, cultural and
linguistic differences. However, the unifying
factor about marriages in India is that
everywhere they are carried out in the
most elaborate manner. All rituals and
tradition right from the state of engagement
to post wedding ceremonies are carried
out in detail and with total faith and
dedication. Participation of friends and
extended family adds to the joy of wedding
celebrations.
India is a land of diverse culture and
religion. Every region of the country
has its own unique way of celebrating
their marriage. Be it east, west, north
and south all the four regions have its
own wedding customs and rituals. Marriages
in India are not just coming together
of two individuals and exchange of vows
and rings, but it marks the bonding of
two souls, two families, their culture
and their communities. Indian wedding
is not an affair of few hours but it is
a matter of several eventful days. All
the family members and friends get together
for the celebration.
It is said that marriages are made in
heaven but celebrated in country like
India. The marriage rituals and customs
unfold different stories behind it. Condensed
over centuries of cultural admixture,
Indian weddings showcase the rich culture
and tradition of India. The practices
of Indian wedding are different according
to the particular region. There are various
rituals with which you can associate an
Indian wedding. The wedding celebration
is divided into three parts pre wedding,
main day and post wedding. The pre wedding
rituals vary according to the region.
But the ceremony of mehendi is prevalent
more or less in every caste and region.
The ceremony of mehendi is celebrated
mostly at bride's place where female friends
and relatives of the bride gather to put
henna on bride's feet and hand. Among
the other rituals garland ceremony is
the most popular rituals, which is celebrated
more or less in every part of the country.
On this occasion the bride and the groom
garland each other as a sign of mutual
acceptance. On the main wedding day a
wedding altar or mandapa is built on the
wedding venue within which the marriage
is conducted. The rituals, which were
performed on that day is totally based
on the regional customs and traditions.
The ritual of putting sindoor or vermilion
powder in the parting of the bride's hair
by the groom is the ritual followed mostly
in the northern and eastern part of the
country. Rituals like kanyadaan, vidaii,
tying of mangal sutra around the bride's
neck, saptapadi (seven steps), in which
the couple moves seven times together
around the fire exchanging the wedding
vows, here fire acts as a witness of their
marriage. These are some of the common
rituals practiced in all the castes.
The wedding rituals were initially simple
and easy to follow but nowadays it has
become more complicated due to unnecessary
customs like dowry. The custom of dowry
is mostly prevalent in the marriages in
villages. In educated and high society
families dowry system is not seen so much.
But whatever may be the rituals and customs
the actual essence behind all wedding
celebration is the union of two souls,
two families and two communities. And
that makes Indian wedding an unique celebration
of culture and tradition.